My brother and future sister-in-law just received their adorable JeanM wedding invitations and both instantly asked me, "What's the deal with all the envelopes?" Their invitation set came with both inner and outer envelopes. They also ordered response cards bringing the envelope tally to three and the confusion level to 100%. I broke it down for them and here is how it goes:
First, you should know that some invitations come with inner and outer envelopes. Inner envelopes are typically used for more formal events, and are placed into the outer envelope prior to mailing. Here is our etiquette tip:
- Outer envelopes should be addressed to guests using the proper titles (Mr., Mrs., Miss, Ms.) Don't abbreviate names or addresses. The outer envelope has the guests' names and address.
- When determining whether to use Ms., Mrs., or Miss, always respect the woman's preference. If it is not known, it is appropriate to use the title "Ms."
- Men and women living together who are not married should be addressed with the names on separate lines.
- The inner envelopes should only have the guests' names. It is not gummed so it doesn't seal. You may be formal by writing Mr. and Mrs. William Jones or as informal as Uncle Bill and Aunt Jenny.
On the invitation's web page, the envelope information will be listed at the bottom of the page under the features tab. Here is an example of what it may look like:
For every invitation, you will have the option of having your return address printed on the back flap of the envelope. If your fantastic invite is lost on its way to the lucky guest, the return address will ensure its safe return to you. Many choose to have the return address printed in the same ink color they plan on addressing their invitation in- most commonly black.
Some invitations will have the option of purchasing envelope lining to decorate the inner flap of the envelope. If the invitation comes with inner and outer envelopes, the inner envelopes will be lined. If only outer envelopes are included, the outer envelope will be lined. This option adds some spice to your envelopes and is used to compliment the colors of the invitation.
Finally, response cards are dependent little creatures who come with their own little envelopes to keep them warm on their way to their destination. These envelopes have the hosts' return address printed on the front so that the invited can mail their response back to the invitee.
There you have it- the run down on the envelope situation. If you think you might make some typos addressing your many envelopes, then it's a good idea to purchase additional envelopes for mistakes in step one of the order process. To purchase envelopes by themselves, click here.
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